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  • That's normally where the kids learn it from.

    What can be scary is when you get to grow up during the Good Times and develop that emotional maturity, then tip into the Bad Times (economic downturn, family drama/death, social upheaval) such that your parents can't hold shit together anymore. Anyone who has lived through the illness/death of a loved one or a divorce or an ugly recession gets to see the impact on their parents in real time.

    Suddenly you're caught trying to understand why seemingly proper, happy parents can't manage themselves anymore. It's a lot to ask from everybody - parents and kids alike. One reason why having strong social safety nets and robust public services can be the difference between families struggling through and falling apart.

  • The missile incident ‌reported by Turkey was the first time a NATO member has been drawn into the Middle East conflict, but U.S. Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth said there was no sense that it would trigger NATO's collective defence clause.

    Haven't the bulk of the NATO states already committed to aiding in the bombardment of Iran? Seems like everyone but Spain leapt on board as early as Monday.

    Some Iranians have openly celebrated the death of the supreme leader, whose security forces killed thousands of anti-government demonstrators only weeks ago in the biggest domestic unrest since the ​era of the revolution. But Iranians angry with the government said ​there was unlikely to be much sign of ⁠protest while bombs are falling. "We have nowhere to go to protect ourselves from strikes, how can we protest?" Farah, 45, said by phone from Tehran, adding that the security forces "are everywhere. They will kill us. I hate this regime, but first I have to think about the safety of my two children."

    As the war drags on, I have to wonder how many Iranians are going to be in favor of the bombs landing on their homes and their schools and their hospitals.

    We saw this in Iraq after the US invasion. People who'd "greeted the US as liberators" suddenly found themselves in the crosshairs of juiced up, trigger-happy, English-only speaking marines. The end result - best documented in the Collateral Murder video - was more and more Iraqi civilians radicalizing against the American occupation as they fought for their lives against US-backed warlords and bloodthirsty gangs of US-sponsored mercenaries.

  • Curiously, this is something parents are often on the lookout for with their kids - especially younger and less verbal kids. Watching for physical and emotional queues is the difference between knowing when your kid is genuinely upset and just hungry or sleepy. The tenor of a wail can be the difference between "I've lost my ball under the couch" and "I've seriously injured myself, get me to a doctor asap". You'll also notice little kids adopting coping mechanisms - self-soothing by sucking on a hand or clucking a toy can indicate stress even if your child isn't crying. Flinching from a seemingly harmless object can indicate some kind of pain or trauma (recoiling from food because you've got a sore throat, flinging a book because it has a scary picture, etc).

    Kids get older and they start learning how to read queues from their parents in turn. And that's a normal, healthy way to grow, even if what you're discovering about your family is that they're chronically stressed or ill-tempered.

    "I noticed my mom was upset, so I tried to cheer her up" is an emotional development you should want to see in your children. Because you're going to be around people who are upset the older you get. And developing empathy is a good thing precisely because it means you're looking outside yourself and recognizing others as people like yourself.

    In theory, it sets off a positive feedback loop. You're grumpy, and your parents notice, so they try to cheer you up. They're grumpy, and you notice, so you try to cheer them up. And the net result is less stress, more love, and a stronger bond between family members.

  • Won't somebody, anybody, think of the 19 year old high school enlisted grunts who will be forced to micromanage a genocide on the other end of the world?!

    This was supposed to be a long range nation wide massacre! Liberals don't support Americans coming back in body bags.

  • The end game

  • I’d love to see how Microsoft is gonna convince those cheap fucks that this is the correct path forward

    I suspect we're going to see some kind of sweeping compatibility issues in the next few years. Possibly a really ugly virus rips through the business community to scare people into switching.

  • What are u even discussing about guys…

    Doomerism

  • I guess you'll just need to convert to proprietary cloud services

  • Since President Donald Trump took office, the U.S. has taken aggressive steps to curb the flow of drugs from the Southern hemisphere. The administration has conducted about 45 strikes against suspected smuggling vessels in the Caribbean and Pacific Ocean, killing more than 150 people.

    Love to drop a kilo of explosives on some poor bastard out fishing, because I've got a hunch.

    Noboa has courted the Trump administration over the past year in the hopes of securing assistance. He came to Washington for Trump’s second inauguration and Secretary of State Marco Rubio visited Ecuador in September, and told reporters that the U.S. would “blow up” criminal groups if needed.

    So... funny story about President Noboa

    In a March 23 debate held for candidates in forthcoming presidential elections, challenger Luisa González and incumbent President Daniel Noboa exchanged accusations of corruption and ties to organized crime.

    After Noboa accused González of links to money laundering, González repeatedly questioned her rival about Noboa Trading, a banana exportation company owned by the president’s family.

    “They export drugs in banana boxes belonging to Mr. Daniel Noboa’s company to Croatia and Italy,” González said of Noboa Trading.

    Noboa responded by tacitly admitting that there have been cases of drug trafficking through the company’s shipments but denying any wrongdoing.

    If there's one thing narco-traffickers hate, its competition.

  • The US has been at war 228 out of 246 250 years since 1776

    So... not technically wrong, I guess.

  • Turns out Killing All The Brown People was a bipartisan consensus.

  • Officials became suspicious when they spotted a gangster with this tattoo

  • Turns out the plan was to kill a bunch of people you hate.

  • rules lawyers are as happy as a pig in mud

    In my experience, rules lawyers get a certain special high from remembering some obscure piece of info and digging it out at the right moment. It's their own special kind of magic. And - from time to time - it does make the game better, because you've got a guy who can say "Actually there IS a rule for jumping off a cliff, grabbing onto a big vine, and swinging onto the back of the rampaging Wyvern".

    But when the DM thinks they know the rules and the Player thinks they know the rules, and then they spend half an hour arguing over the results of a dice roll, it is my experience that neither of them walk away from the table happier than when they started. The best you can ever get is the table stakes and the worst you get is feeling robbed or cheated.

    Fate is definitely among my top games. I recommend it to everyone who brings up gaming, but I never seem to be able to get into a group with it these days. I personally hate d&d for how it not only is the name everyone knows, but somehow has cemented itself as the only game people are willing to play.

    The d20 system is pretty quick to pick up but contains enough depth to allow for wide variations in setting and style. So many of the variants are just right there at surface level. Nobody has to work hard to make fireballing a goblin legion or sneak attacking a mind flayer cooler than it already is.

    FATE is perhaps too vanilla and really relies on the players/DMs to pick up the slack in their descriptions. The fundamental problem with a very story-based game is where you go with it when other people at the table just aren't exciting enough to keep it compelling. Easy to say "I like this system over that system" when what you really liked was the group of Theater Kids (or just the friends you knew with a good set of in-jokes) that made the game pop.

    I know a few friends who swear by Call of Cthulhu as a system. But their DM is a phenomenal amateur horror writer. So, I feel like it isn't the system that's doing a lot of the work.

  • Idk about "winning", but definitely "flooding the zone so hard that you struggle to find normal music anymore".

    Check out Bandcamp if you're looking for "same vibe, different artist". They've got a ton of musicians on the platform that do a great job of churning out period and style specific material that's still human-made and different enough from the original that it doesn't feel like the same song.

    But YouTube Music, Spotify, and Soundcloud are all just drowning in the slop. The only winning move is not to play them.

  • Rogue: "Hope you like your STAKE medium RARE!"

    Vampire: "Can't believe after 500 years I'm going out to a bad pun."

    Cleric: Winding up to club him with a Holy Cannoli

  • Twelve years ago, when XP released, there was legitimately a decision to be made what with nine distinct versions of the OS available. That still hasn't stopped even in the modern day. So I could see people discussing exactly which version of Win10/11 they needed and then recommending others based on their experience.

    But it's sort of like the BMW that comes with a subscription to heated seats and ABS. Like, why would you subject yourselves to this kind of abuse in an OS?

  • "How likely are you to recommend putting your hand up to the elbow in this wood chipper?"

    Like, if you're in the business of building PCs? I definitely understand swapping build tips with friends and colleagues. Even strictly within the "No Linux Allowed" space, there's no shortage of online tutorials and consultants recommending this or that version of Microsoft.

    But Win10 is going away and Win11 is so fucking bad...

  • makes everything turn into the rules lawyer heaven hell.

    👹

    As a personal experience, mutants&masterminds is just, so, horrible about the arguments for how powers interact, and they didn’t help by mixing fuzzy and binary rules

    I've never played. But if that's the Palladium version and it's adjacent to Rifts... ye-gods. Why even have game mechanics at all? Just give us the setting material and a bag full of random dice mixed with cheetos and Chucky Cheese tokens.

    I remember people excitedly snapping up the d20 version of Exalted back in their 2e, almost entirely because they adored the world but despised the White Wolf mechanics. Also seen some decent mileage taking games like this to FATE or Big Eyes Small Mouth, just because it does become much more of a narrative auction than a dice game.

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