Sorry to hear it didn't work out as planned for the two of you.
IMHO, relationships should not be about one persons happiness/goals/etc over the other (i.e. wives are not more important than husbands or vice versa). The item mentioned in the original post isn't going to change anything in their lives (other than bringing one of them a bit of joy).
I bet they would charge them with "Creating a public disturbance."
That's what the cop who told me in Indiana, "Sure, you can wash your car at a public car wash while having a pistol in view; it's not illegal. But I'll arrest you and put you in jail for 'creating a public disturbance' in less than a heartbeat". And, no, he wasn't joking.
I'll let them know that (in case it ever becomes relevant).
They are a wonderful partner and I would never leave them for something so minor. It's just a thing I can't quite wrap my head around - I'm sure I have things about myself that they don't get either. It's not a big deal to either of us.
We are both university grads and know how math works. They just can't get past the psychological barrier of "the bill will be higher when we check out".
Can't get my partner to do this. They are too worried about "saving money/we don't need it (now)". For heavens sake, I'm not saying buy a spare house; just pick up an extra tube of toothpaste!
What this NCO did was not dumb; it was calculated and intentional violations of multiple rules and regulations they (and the others involved) knew very well. Then they tried to cover it up when people started asking questions.
Absolutely no sympathy for them in my book. These are supposed to be the leaders other enlisted look to emulate.
Sorry to hear it didn't work out as planned for the two of you.
IMHO, relationships should not be about one persons happiness/goals/etc over the other (i.e. wives are not more important than husbands or vice versa). The item mentioned in the original post isn't going to change anything in their lives (other than bringing one of them a bit of joy).