I had to think about this for an embarrassingly long time before I realise this was America and they don't have the NHS. In the UK you should absolutely provide your identity to the hospital, so it can go on your medical record.
It's definitely a larger age gap than usual, but if you're especially mature for your age/she's especially immature, my opinion is that it shouldn't matter to others as long as you're both happy.
On the other hand, if you're asking about it and think it might be a problem, it might be worth having a conversation with her about it.
Oh, does it work in Firefox now? When I was developing a music app it only worked properly on Chrome and I had to use a file picker workaround for Firefox and other browsers.
I don't want to see negativity like this. If you don't like something, you can just block it and you'll never see it on Lemmy again. That's what I've done with various things.
I mean, it's not about difficulty, if you are trans, you find it more difficult to not transition than to transition, even though it involves pain and effort.
If you want have the opposite sex's body, if you would take that option if it was just a simple button press, then you are trans. It's not about a choice or a 'path'. Your comment seems a bit confusing on that.
As a transfem person, you're not that wrong. I've noticed much more caring from people after I transitioned. There are negative effects, but in general I've got much more positive attention than negative. People shouldn't be prejudiced against cis men just because of their gender :(
A utopia would include advanced technology to enable post scarcity without human effort, advanced medicine and longevity, and a high upper limit on human power. The middle ages were horrible.
As I said to the other person, there can be a donation and request system to make sure everyone gets what they need, without tying money into it and having this weird limit of the amount of stuff people can get, and tying the idea of value to it all.
You don't need currency for that. You just need a request system. And ideally some form of moral rejection mechanism that refuses to distribute sentient beings as resources. I didn't say it had to be distributed equally just because there's no money.
I had to think about this for an embarrassingly long time before I realise this was America and they don't have the NHS. In the UK you should absolutely provide your identity to the hospital, so it can go on your medical record.