When the internet was still young I entered an online drawing to win a vacation on a travel website. I never really thought much of it. One day I decided to answer the phone even though we got lots of telemarketers. The woman was from the travel company and said I'd won a rafting trip in CO and that this had been their third and final attempt to reach me. It was totally legit, they paid for the flight, rafting trip and rental car. Due to low river levels the trip was moved to the San Juan river in UT though. It was an awesome trip. We even paid some extra to keep the rental car longer to add some extra sightseeing days to the trip.
Not speaking up for my wants and needs. Being a "soldier" and sucking everything up just creates resentment and gives the other person the mistaken assumption that you are ok with everything. It is ok to say "I don't agree" or "I don't like this" as long as you do it respectfully.
The worst part of mental issues is the part of your body that needs to be fixed is the part that isn't working right and is the part that is supposed to make decisions.
For a few years after college I swear I was in some sort of depression. I barely remember anything from those years and my friend from then tells me about stuff I did that I have zero recollection of.
Well they didn't have any past government examples to use as a warning. News and communication back then was also much more limited.
I could grab my rifle and take to the streets
They literally had street battles with armed communists and ww1 veterans fighting each other. The average person was so horrified of living in a war zone that they voted for any party who could stop it.
Ah yes, mob "justice" always works so well.