In your place I'd be tempted to notice the negative reaction this comment got (the most in this thread by far) and see it as an invitation to widen your understanding of neurodivergence. A lot of neurodivergent people struggle with feelings of being "broken" that they may have experienced for a whole lifetime. It's only very recently that a global conversation about neurodivergence based on understanding rather than shaming has started to happen. Your comment, perhaps unwittingly, hit a nerve. Ironically, it also potentially displayed markers for neurodivergence, in the sense that you weren't able to anticipate the feelings it would manifest. If you are "one of us" I hope you have a helpful journey of discovery ahead of you and people who can support you through it 🙂
My favourite Steam game is called "spending money unwisely". Ooh that dopamine hit when the "Thank you for your recent Steam purchase" message comes in" (chef's kiss).
Man, the Russian disinfo hubs really want to shutdown anything Obama has to say don't they... Anyone without a vast deficit of logic should be able to spot the contradictions though. How anyone with a brain can look at the wholesale greed led destruction of America that Trump is doing and then say that Obama is the real problem is just bonkers. I suppose it just shows how threatened they are by him.
I'm saying, at the end of the day, make your own mind up about things. Don't blindly follow anyone's advice. People are constantly trying to tell you which way is up and 80% of the time it's matrix style horseshit.
ADHD is falling down a rabbit hole trying to find an answer to this question and realising that there IS actually a definitive answer, which turns out to be that it's a "half empty glass" if the last thing that happened to it was that liquid was removed, but it's a "half full glass" if the last thing that happened to it was that liquid was added, BUT you also have to factor in evaporation which is happening constantly, so really every glass that contains an amount of liquid that corresponds to half of it's containment ability is actually "half empty" except for the few seconds after water was added to it, in which case it is, briefly, half full, then describing your findings in a single, insanely long sentence.
Man, it took me a long time of trying lots of different things until I found the thing that worked for me. I guess looking at it now, the turning point was when I understood what makes me tick finally. So in answer to the question about what starting your own business looks like, it depends on what vibes with you the most. You want to try and have an equal balance of doing what you're good at, what the world needs, what you love and what you can get paid for. The rest is paperwork.
I don't know how it works in your part of the world but here in the UK you can just decide that you're a "sole trader" to begin with. You don't need to make a company and you only need book-keeping rather than corporate accounting which is cheaper and simpler. I guess a good first move might be to go visit a business networking group. I'd avoid BNI if I were you and go check out one of the many groups created by people who escaped BNI groups (not kidding). They'll give you a TON of free advice and you'll start building some good relationships. Don't try to grow in a vacuum by going solo. You'll likely get lonely, sad and overwhelmed.
I meant that thing earlier about not believing anyone. There are so many people with "in your face" grindset mindset BS advice who'll try to sell you on the idea that you've got everything wrong and you need to do it their way. Ignore them. They're either trying to make a buck out of you or desperate for validation.
Also don't create unnecessary hassles for yourself. There are loads of things you don't need when you start off, but it'll be tempting to want to put money down because it will feel like you're "taking control". Only invest in stuff you'll need immediately to make stuff work for you.
As for the type of business itself it doesn't have to be super qualified at anything. A lot of businesses amount to doing stuff for people that they just don't want to do themselves because it's scary or a hassle. You don't have to invent anything. Just find a metaphorical bucket someone is tired of trying to carry and get good at carrying it for them. That's basically all it is. I'll do X so you don't have to and I'll do it better cos it's all I do.
Last and most important bit of advice that literally took me 30 years to figure out. Make every service you provide a monthly subscription. One off jobs SUCK cos, Like Sisyphus, you're going to have to keep rolling that boulder up the damn hill, over and over, finding endless new clients. You'll also have to chase payments over and over which isn't good for your blood pressure.
Make everything a monthly subscription to 25-50 people you've nurtured good relationships with. If you set it up right you'll get paid before you do the job, never have to chase slow payers and easily pay your bills and put food on the table without a boss above you, grinding you down.
Do that for a couple of years and that will teach you what you need to know for the next step.
You'll never get rich digging another man's ditch.
The job application system is a con to grind the hopes of fresh meat into dust.
Much easier to control someone who's been told they're utterly insignificant.
My advice is:
Find the boat Truman (it might not look like a boat in your particular iteration).
Sail it (or drive, fly, gallop, swim) until you hit the edge of their simulation.
climb up the steps, open the little door and go and make your own reality.
Erm... (cough)
Start a business...... I'm saying start your own business is what I'm saying.
Don't over-complicate it. Just start.
You're welcome.
Oh and also don't believe anyone, about anything. Everyone's got an angle.
Confidently incorrect again I'm afraid. My death is much more likely to be from a heart attack, because I just couldn't say no to snacks. The rest of you are going to be just fine.
Also, here's a wild theory... What if it's AI that STOPS us from killing ourselves?
As a species, we do seem to be barreling towards that anyway, with what we're doing to the climate and to each other economically and martially. What if the very thing you fear so much is the thing that saves everyone?
Nice one liner 😉 but that's not what's happening here. AI has absolutely improved my life and the lives of so many people I know. It would literally take too long to describe all ways that "progress" has definitely happened thanks to AI for me.
You're really determined not to make this a light, fun conversation aren't you... I'll be honest with you, I get how you feel but don't worry. Yes, people are fascinated by it cos it's new, but they will soon get tired of it, if it doesn't do anything significantly different soon. You won't have long to wait before it doesn't feel like AI artwork is being forced into everything, because once the novelty's gone it'll just fade away. It's just a tool at the end of the day. Everyone will get over it and move on.
Had to check the UK cos not on this list. Looks like we're not too bad (0.41 in 2022/23)