While I agree on it being a slur and don't use it, I also see the futility of the fight.
Right now that is the word, but "idiot" and "moron" are both terms that have gone through the same events as medical terms adopted as insults, causing us to need a new term.
At the same time, extending that hand is what will help. If a person is able to go "omg NOW I get it" and then the door is shut in their face, that will foster even more resentment.
Some people wont change, but those that are willing should be accepted.
While I agree on it being a slur and don't use it, I also see the futility of the fight.
Right now that is the word, but "idiot" and "moron" are both terms that have gone through the same events as medical terms adopted as insults, causing us to need a new term.