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@ Gradually_Adjusting @lemmy.world

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I'm a human being, god damn it. My life has value.

  • You would first have to convince party insider democrats to turn their back on the biggest source of funds in their entire history. From your lips to god's ears and all, but let's be real. It's not bloody likely

  • I'll just refer you to the above graph. That fear is greater among the elders who grew up in the McCarthy era, and the unfortunates who listen to them.

  • It doesn't prevent any changes to the content, but that's what pen is for.

  • Easier to have a cryptic rule, such as "third sentence in every entry must have exactly three words, and the last word in the entry must rhyme with the very first word." That would validate the entry with far less work, and people would need massive sample sizes to have any chance at finding the pattern.

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  • Fuck me that's ugly.

  • I don't need to, I know my shit is weak

  • Psychologists hate cigars

  • The calm that washes over me when I see people just casually talking sense on the internet

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  • Same + agree

  • It's sad but true, this is not the time to seize temporary comfort. A lot of pain would have been saved if a harder stance was taken a decade ago, but it's not too late to make more of the same mistakes.

  • The difference between Kardashev type civilisations is just a matter of time and how good the species is at killing their billionaires

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  • Hell yeah

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  • See, to me that's ideal. I'd have it just the same if I could, but having the far one turned 45 degrees creates such a cozy feeling.

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  • This mf be typing

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  • They should have used mine for CE.

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  • I've been there, it's hell. The hormonal swings do get easier in your twenties, but mean people will keep on sucking. I don't know enough about the mental health system in your country to give any specific advice about what is worth pursuing. I know you need people though - kind people in your life who you can talk to (not online). Romance, trustworthy friends, and genuine joy might be the only things you need to thrive. You might also need mental health support if the daydreams, or the interpersonal difficulties you mentioned, aren't manageable. Almost everyone daydreams sometimes, but it's not the best way to deal with stress if the source of the issues are still there when the daydream is over. Sometimes there's nothing wrong with someone other than the fact that they're surrounded by assholes, you know? Have you thought about volunteering at a library or something like that? People who do volunteer work are generally quite kind, it can be a good place to meet people.

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  • Are you a teenager? It can be a rather stressful time of life. Your hormones are going crazy, and it's not uncommon to dissociate a bit when there's no escape from the source of the stress. If you have friends, spend time with them or try a phone call. Personally I've stopped doing video calls because it feels too much like a performance and it gets in the way of human connection. Hopefully that's an option. If not, the best you can do is try to cope with your stressors in positive ways. Find creative outlets if there are no social ones. Let your feelings really be felt, don't just push them away. Maybe your daydreams are calling you to write some fiction?

    I just woke up but that's the advice I think I needed when I was young and stressed, and doing a lot of daydreaming.