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GooberEar

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  • I recently lost my job due to the federal government cancelling contracts with my employer. I won't claim that I'm going through Hell, but it's far from unicorns and rainbows.

    It's definitely a lot to deal with emotionally all at once. I worry that I may not find a job that I genuinely enjoy as much as the one I lost. Even though I know it's not strictly because of anything I did wrong, I struggle with the idea that I was considered unimportant and expendable. It also makes me feel like I'm not a reliable "breadwinner" for my family. Then there's the little things, like the fact that I'm having to cut back on purchases that aren't necessities, forgo expenditures that I was hoping to make, and things like that. On top of all that, I have a lot of guilt about feeling bad for myself knowing that a number of my former coworkers who were also let go are in a lot worse situations than me.

    I'm able to be a bit optimistic about some things. For instance, I'm glad that the ACA (health insurance not tied to employment) is an option. The COBRA healthcare coverage option is ridiculously expensive, but most of the ACA options are notably less expensive and, at least on paper, seem to be better options (ex: lower copays, deductibles, max out of pocket) and there are tax credits you can take based on income that make it even less expensive. Another benefit is that being unemployed gives me more time with my family, more time with friends, and more time to catch up on all the little chores that need my attention.

    But, at the end of the day, I will say that I'm strongly considering getting some psychiatric help and/or therapy. The only thing holding me back at this point is concerns over whether I can truly afford it. Sure I can spend $100USD per session for a therapist now, but in a few months, will the cost of those sessions make a difference between whether I have food on the table or not? It's a gamble that I'm just not quite willing to risk right now.

  • Max Streaming ‘Enshittifies’ Further, Removes Classic Looney Tunes

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  • Probably just a temporary hitch, but I tried to use the app today to look for some Little Britain content. I'm certain that a decade+ ago, HBO carried Little Britain episodes. I was under the impression that Max was basically rebranded HBO and Cinemax in crappified app format.

    Tried to open the app, got a loading screen for well over a minute. Closed it and tried to open it again. Waited another minute and it finally showed the profile selection screen. I clicked on my profile and got a completely useless error message, so I clicked on my partner's profile and it worked. Clicked the up button a few times to get to the search screen, nothing happened. Clicked again, and it finally registered the first few click PLUS the newest click, so it overshot the search icon. Finally got it back to search and then clicked the microphone button so I could speak rather than type. It completely did not understand "Little Britain" and instead searched "Britain britain" with no relevant results. Tried again, and it failed harder. Ended up having to type in Little Britain manually. So 10 minutes later after having the thought that I'd like to watch Little Britain, I finally get the results. Turns out the show isn't available to watch anymore (or else the search failed, hard to know for sure). Terrible experience.

    This should be an embarrassment. I would be embarrassed if I had developed some bullshit like this.

  • "Heads should roll": Congress erupts over Trump administration's Signal leak

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  • If (isConservative(fuckwad) === true) then "totally okay" else "not okay at all, impeach, repeal, reject";

  • ‘RICH SOIL’ [OC]

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  • There's not just one single answer to this, each type of plant that "can't live in rich soil" has its own story so to speak.

    One common theme is that these plants tend to be more efficient at collecting specific, necessary nutrients that are otherwise limited/lacking in their environment, and because they'd never naturally be exposed to large amounts of those nutrients, they've lost some or all of their ability to regulate uptake and/or to expel excesses from their tissues in comparison to other types of plants not adapted to those specific conditions.

    So, when introduced to artificially high levels of these nutrients, they basically absorb the nutrient(s) until it reaches toxic/deadly levels, and then the plants lack the ability to get rid of the excess since there was never a need for such a mechanism when they evolved in their nutrient poor niche. It can lead to issues where the plants can't maintain osmotic balance or nutrient / mineral antagonism leads to the plant being unable to absorb or make use of other vital nutrients because one of them is so out of balance.

  • She hoped Trump would revive her farm. Now she worries his policies could bankrupt it.

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  • I'm sorry, if you're growing cherries, fucking expensive ass cherries, and can't stay afloat without almost a half million dollars of welfare, then what the fuck are you even doing? I don't fully agree with it, but I at least understand the importance of giving welfare to people growing crops we actually need, but frivolous shit like cherries? What a waste. If we're paying almost a half million dollars in taxes to give you cherry welfare, those cherries better be free or close to it.

  • Republican town hall drowned out by "tax the rich" chants

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  • My father's side of the family is super, duper, ultra hardcore "conservative" Trump-loving "Christian".

    They love, love, love to bring up politics at every conceivable opportunity. It's one of those situations where I have loathed going for visits for decades and sometimes even making the obligate check-in calls plays heck on my "nerves".

    But in the past few years when the conversation turns political, I've started hearing big shifts in tone when it comes to opinions on the ultra wealthy in the USA. The last time I was at a family gathering around the holidays, they were berating the Luigi situation and talking about how disgusting it was that anybody would do that, let alone condone it.

    That conversation literally did a 180 once I pointed out how it was interesting that the school shooting that happened that same day (or maybe it was a day or two before/after) had received a fraction of the coverage. And it was interesting how murders of people who aren't rich don't get that kind of coverage. Basically, when people like you and me get killed for whatever reason, you don't hear about it. But a rich person is shot and suddenly it's national news and top billed news for weeks. Wonder why that is?

    And those conservative "I hate liberals and liberals should be shot" relatives of mine were in complete agreement.

    So, whether you think it sucks or not, you need to know that if you actually want change and actually want things to improve, you're going to have to forgive and you're going to have to find common ground with people that you otherwise disagree with on a fundamental level. Fuck you if you say otherwise, you are wrong. And I don't say that lightly.

  • All for this.

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  • I'm super jealous because I've wanted to have Canadian citizenship since back in my late teens / early adulthood when I realized that there was already a version of America that actually lived up to American ideals and which offered same-sex marriage as well as universal healthcare. That weed and apparently codeine are legal there make it so much more bittersweet.

    The only people I've known personally to get citizenship are those who married a Canadian citizen. Which sucks for me because I'm already happily partnered and there's no way I'd give that up for anything, not even Canadian citizenship, awesome and appealing as it is.

  • Not today

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  • Back in late 2023 or early 2024, I was doing chat support with one of the major US e-retailers due to a return & refund situation that I was honestly expecting to be a problem because that type of thing pretty much always is for some reason.

    I ended up getting escalated to a higher tier tech named Muhammad who was miraculously able to quickly address the problem that his peers seemingly could not. At the end of our interaction, Muhammad thanked me for my patience and kindness, and replied something along the lines of "see you on the other side."

    For some reason that random and otherwise meaningless expression has stuck with me ever since. Hardly a week goes by without me thinking about it at least once.

    It was a reminder that our time here is limited. And while I'm not a big believer that there is another "side" like I assume someone named Muhammad believes, it was still somehow comforting and an important reminder of perspective.

  • Anti-Extinct Creature Language

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  • Instead of: "They're a disgusting troglodyte" Say: They are clearly ingenious enough to recognize the utility of having a stable living environment to retreat to for protection that's superior to any structure they could possibly build using the technology and techniques available to them at the time.

  • Moltin'

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  • Ssssssweety, are you losing weight because you look so sssssssskinny.

  • 19 March 2025

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  • My aunt Martha had what she described as the world's smartest rooster. Thing was so smart he figured out how to unlock the hen house door. Except one day he unlocked the door and a fox got in and killed all the hens. So to me as a casual observer, it doesn't seem like that rooster was all that smart.

  • OMG.

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  • I once saw a stomp of bigfeet grazing next to a glacial lake out on my grandparent's property. Looked like a mommy bigfoot, a daddy bigfoot, and two little baby bigfeet. Named the littlest one Pinky like a pinky toe cause it was little and that's what it reminded me of. The other baby had obvious signs of being mauled by a large carnivore so we named it Timothy after that man who got ate up by bears in Alaska that one time. Sometimes the mommy bigfoot would remind me of a Sheila but sometimes she would be just like a Jessica, so I never could decide on what exactly to name her. The daddy was named Big Balls for obvious reasons.

  • 18 March 2025

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  • Reality is a bit more complicated than that. With respects to the species concept, what matters are traits at the population level, not at the individual level.

    Think about it this way. If such a thing did exist, the first of its species, the very first true chicken then there would be no other true chicken for it to breed with. The only thing it's making babies with is something of a different species (like the ancestral precursor chicken species), and thus all the babies would be hybrids by definition.

    Granted, all of this is irrelevant, since from a strictly pedantic perspective, the egg obviously came first because egg laying was ancient by the time birds existed.

  • Mischievous kitty

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  • Looks just like me when I am fussing with my bond's eye tree.

  • Today we Walk

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  • And if it weren't for that fucking asshole fish, I wouldn't have to sell feet pics and host an Only Fans to pay my student loans.

  • Purely for educational purposes.

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  • How am I expected to be able to afford a fuckload of sugar in this economy?

  • The brittleness of white billionaires

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  • Thanks, Obama.

  • 'Terrified': 'Shocking' new numbers seen as 'referendum on Trump's mishandling of economy'

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  • I don't know what all goes into consumer confidence, but I can tell you that my consumer confidence has been very low and very pessimistic since November 2024 and that pessimism went into overdrive by January 2025.

    I've dropped all discretionary spending on big ticket items, even the things I have been planning for and saving for since long before the election. I've also cut way back on spending for essentials, skipping out on preferred and "luxury" brands at the grocery store and instead going for generic and brands that I like less but which are cheaper, or just going without. I've also cut way back on services. If I don't know how secure my income is or how long my savings might last, then I'm not going to speed up my ruin by spending now.

    Ironically enough, the only people I know who seem to be happy with the economy are the ones who were cheering for the "I did that" stickers and asking "why is eggs so expensive" under Biden but noticeably silent on those topics once Trump became president. Unfortunately for the economy, they are almost entirely low income folks (i.e. social security, food stamps, minimum wage part-time jobs) who aren't typically drivers of the economy to begin with and who are probably going to be hurt the worst if and when things get really bad.

  • danger noodles

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  • I love, love, love, love, love hognose snakes!

    I was a young kid the first time I encountered one in the wild. The hognose lifted the front half of its body off the ground, flattened its neck, and hissed at me like a cobra when I got a little too close. I was the type of kid who just HAD to catch them all, and I knew for sure it couldn't be a cobra, so I persisted. Then the snake rolled over on its back, opened its mouth, stuck its tongue out, and slobbered in an ill fated attempt to appear dead. It was so "dead" that when I rolled it back upright, it immediately rolled over on its back again. Like any dead thing would do.

    Just overall super neat behavior and comical to say the least.

    Certainly a much more entertaining deterrent than most of the other snakes in my area that just seem to shit themselves and emit disgusting smelling mess in the process.

  • Bit more cheese

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  • I love cheese. From my head down to my knees.