Maybe it's a little abstract because agender is a negative identity, defined by absence, but it feels more like people want me to use a script that feels extremely arbitrary and they get mad when I don't pretend. It took years of talking to trans people just to convince me that gender isn't just one more layer of neurotypical bullshit, but it still feels to me like people are demanding that I act like a star sign or Meyers Briggs personality type
I'm agender, and that feels right to me, but what doesn't feel right is the way people talk to me. I can tolerate it from strangers and from people I don't respect, but I really can't shake that even most of my friends (and also my ex) talk to me like a man. Really there's only a handful of people who talk to me like a person, and I appreciate it every time.
I'm far from fluent in Spanish, but I really appreciate that it maintains the "thou" form. Maybe I've just been feeling emotional lately, but I feel like it's something that's really missing from my ability to express myself in English.
I guess I should name the episode: A Message From Charity, in which nerdy Tom Paris in the 80s becomes discord friends with a young Puritan woman in the 1700s
Only trouble is none of my queer friends are local. He'll, even the bar isn't, I had to drive for a while just to get there. There are no queer events around me.
I feel this. I found put yesterday that while I was in high school, my aunt and uncle tried talking to my parents about me being depressed, but they didn't do anything about it. If they had listened it could have saved me ten years of my life.
your boyn't can't be trusted with spiced whiskey this shit is too yummy