How often and during what time of day would you used the soap based spray? I usually use it sometime before the sunsets. Yeah we grew some Nasturtiums to attract aphids away from the actually crops, seems to do the job, plus any ladybirds we find in our garden I usually pick them up and put them where the aphids are and watch them go wild lol.
We have some coffee grounds saved up since my sister works at a coffee shop and she takes them home, do they work? Apparently they do, but not as effectively from what I've read, maybe I need to do more research on that part. Other than that yeah, usually check the soil if it's dry and needs watering and do the regular feeding.
That's what I was afraid of lol, it's been on my mind if whether the weather has something to do with crops not growing. It does make sense that some years climates are different than others, what with climate change and all that.