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Croquette

@ Croquette @sh.itjust.works

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  • When your girlfriend takes her top off

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  • Worst is that some medication will kill your orgasm. So you get your libido back, but you don't get to enjoy your orgasm anymore.

  • When your girlfriend takes her top off

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  • This is only my experience, so take what follows for what it's worth (not much).

    I have been in the same situation as your partner (though I had sex with my partner more ofte, but still way less than before medication).

    Simply put, I was ashamed of my low libido and not in a good headspace even with my medication( which was supposed to help).

    I was so ashamed that I didn't want to initiate sex with my partner. It was not rational, but that is how I felt at the time. And I would sometime watch porn so that I could get the dopamine I would get from sex, without the shame.

    I know it won't make you feel better, but hopefully you can have a different perspective on how your partner might feel and get, hopefully, a new track to find a solution to your problems.

    Also, there are some medications that can help with libido (Wellbutrin if I remember correctly). Might be worth it for your partner to check with his doctor.

  • If it fits...

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  • I would bet that a lot of trucks are larger than the Smart is long.

  • Yep

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  • I planned my kids and still can't wait to get some of my freedom back. Both can be true.

    No amount of babysitting or exposition can truly show you show how relentless having kids is. Timing and planning will help alleviate that. But you are still one flu away from two weeks of hell. And that's when your kids are healthy.

  • Xi Jinping vows to reunify China and Taiwan in New Year’s Eve speech

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  • There is a second axis between libertarian and autoritarian.

  • time will tell

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  • When my son was born, I had 3 months of parental leave.

    The first month was spent just recuperating from work and taking care of my first one. After the first month of sleeping better and not having the stress of work, I started esting a lot better and training and lost 50 pounds in 2 months because I had the time and energy to cook well.

    Over the last two years, I've gained back 30 pounds because my 2 years old doesn't sleep and my job is stressful.

    So I feel what you said.

  • European lawmakers will study a ban on 'loot boxes' and addictive features in video games

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  • What about the other side?

  • European lawmakers will study a ban on 'loot boxes' and addictive features in video games

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  • Loot box are still a thing, in a big way. Look at CS2 or the yearly soccer games.

    And gacha games on mobile are a plague.

    Lootbox is the first step, battlepass close second.

  • That would make money

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  • To be fair, the phone experience of increasingly more companies is just fucking terrible.

    Menus over menus. Trying to get to speak a person that isn't from India is pretty fucking hard. You usually arrive at a voicemail and don't know when you will hear from them.

    Might as well cut the bullshit and find a straight forward experience online instead.

  • MongoBleed is web scale

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  • My reason asking is because there are other scheme I feel are more adequate for non relational data, but this isn't my domain and I barely dabbled in that, so that's worth absolutely nothing.

    But your point about the data being used later makes a lot of sense and I didn't think about that. Down the road, someone will ask you to create links to your data and if you already have a DB, then you don't have to change the whole infrastructure to accommodate that. You can create new schemes and already have a somewhat functional access to it.

    Thanks for the input.

  • MongoBleed is web scale

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  • Side tracking here : to me, it seems like every DB is relational, no?

    What use case would a DB used and not be relational? With my minimal experience in DB, I haven't seen any other use cases than a relational DB.

  • all my homies hate eco-fascists

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  • Liberals are mostly the status quo, and the status quo enables the current climate crisis. Not a hard concept to grasp.

  • all my homies hate eco-fascists

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  • I read eco-fascist as someone that can't change their habits, so will double down on the destructive habits for the environment, not someone that fights to reduce the impact of climate change through actions against capitalism.

  • NVIDIA Puts 100-Hour Monthly Limit on All GeForce NOW Subscriptions

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  • Capitalism has carcinisation for rent. If something stay solvent long enough, it will turn into a rent seeking subscription.

  • Top Republicans Give First Year Under Trump 2.0 a Failing Grade

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  • They are still fucking traitors. To the streets with them, like the others.

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  • Because happy people don't talk about why they are happy.

    Just like kids. People usually share the hardships unless prompted to share the good memories.

    We like to share our struggles and commiserate so that we feel better. When we are happy, we don't need to do that.

  • World rejoices as MAGA boxer Jake Paul finally beaten senseless

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  • He's a grifter, of course he will vote for someone that will make grifting easier.

  • Big Business Is Pushing Mark Carney For More Handouts

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  • Because the amount of money the general populace has vs the money corpos are putting is very low.

    If you can't even make ends meet, how are you supposed to buy on the stockmarket

  • Zohran Mamdani's popularity is surging in New York

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  • I do understand that the DNC has complete control. We've seen many example of that, the most egregious being Bernie vs Clinton.

    US society is fundamentally to the right and the DNC will keep it that way.

    That creates an issue where changing the Democrat Party will take a long long time. So the better option would be a real left party, but that would mean that Republicans would be in power for a while, until the politcal landscape changes and stabilise with 3 parties. And that's not accounting for the DNC that will work against the newly formed party.

    Denying that the DNC is neo-liberal to its core is deliberate ignorance.

    Any prominent member that has an ounce of progressism has to fight the DNC at every corner to get through, like we've seen Mamdani.

    Meanwhile, progressives should definitely vote for the Democrats. But this is a different issue. The vote turnout is terrible in North America (we have the same problem in Canada).