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CoffeeTails

@ CoffeeTails @lemmy.world

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Frontend dev living in the Swedish forests.

  • TIL: There's a website called Mapcarta that utilizes information and data from OpenStreetMap, Wikipedia, Wikidata, and other open projects, and presents it in an interactive world map

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  • Tthis is really cool! Thanks for sharing!

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    Is it normal for ADHD people to find it hard to cum because you think about laundry?

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  • Edit: I now realized you wrote in an Adhd community.. Sorry for being stupid below. But my point still stands tho

    Yes true, it's different for everyone! I've read your reply. Kinda ironic they say it's obvious while being neurodivergent (sounds like autism, I'm also autistic).

    You are not a mind-reader. And it is SO easy to miss a cue even if you knew them all because you can't look at their whole body at the same time. Also if it is as obvious as they say, they should be able to teach you all the cues. (I realize that isn't the case tho, but it would be logical)

    I would refuse to play with someone who refuses to communicate. The worst case scenario is death and depending on what flavor of BDSM ones like, that can easily happen. Permanent damages even more likely. Being neurodivergent isn't an excuse to skip communication.

    But, a real suggestion. Maybe you two can playfully explore their body to help them increase their body awareness?

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    Is it normal for ADHD people to find it hard to cum because you think about laundry?

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  • shneancy knows what they are talking about!

    I also want to add that you can try out BDSM stuff without sex. (BDSM doens't even need to very sexual) If you two are unsure about how something feels, pain/comfort-levels etc, try it in a more neutral situation and have fun with it.

    Example:

    Say you two have talked and are curious about face-slapping.

    So you or both start with reading about common damages that can happen (hearing-loss eg), what do to if it happens and tips on how to do it in a good way (hand-positioning eg).

    Try it on your self first, how does it feel to slap your own face on different places? Maybe compare with slapping other body-parts.

    Then you two get together in a relaxed comfy situation. Start SLOW. Like, a light tap on the cheek. Talk about how that felt. Try slightly harder or change position, angle etc. Explore, slow and steady.

    Afterwards, depending on how intense it gets, do some aftercare (for many: cuddles, candy, water, maybe a comforting movie and comfort each other) and let some time go to land in the feelings. Sometimes it takes a bit to process it all.

  • Netflix kills casting from phones

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  • I'm glad we only have old chrome-casts then because we don't have any smart TVs and might never get one either if it's possible. The little I've interacted with them, they seems to be a real pain in the ass. Some/all of them collect loads of data as well. NO THAN YOU. Yes, I might be old and grumpy :c

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  • I want to shapeshift too

  • 4chan refuses to pay UK Online Safety Act fines, asks Trump admin to intervene

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  • No it makes sense. I guess I just thought it would be the other way around.

  • 4chan refuses to pay UK Online Safety Act fines, asks Trump admin to intervene

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  • oh. So if I publish a website I'm responsible for following other countries/areas laws?

  • 4chan refuses to pay UK Online Safety Act fines, asks Trump admin to intervene

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  • What does that mean? Arent most sites available everywhere by default?

  • Chonk

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  • True, but it's kinda sick behavior to laugh at them. Where is your empathy?

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  • Wow, I've seen posts about the here and there. I've got such mixed feelings about it. I mean it's interesting and good to spread awareness. But it feels wrong to make entertainment from sick people.

  • Proton VPN expands Linux capabilities with new split tunneling feature

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  • Oh, I had no idea. Then I'm not curious anymore, lol

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  • A normal cat weights around 4kg. Crumbs weighted at most 17kg. That's a little over 4 times the normal weight.

    An average weight for an average person is 70kg. 4 times the normal weight for an average human would be 280kg

  • Proton VPN expands Linux capabilities with new split tunneling feature

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  • Why? Honestly interested.

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  • This! ↑

    The cervix actually shifts down a bit during the period, making it easier to hit. Some like it, some doesn't.

    It's as you say, we do have an extra horny time of the month around ovulation, the week before ovulation. It's when our discharge has the consistency of raw egg white bc the sperms swims easier in it or something like that.

    if I remember correctly.

  • Anyone got anything they wanna talk about?

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  • I hate how they use AI but doesn't give feedback on how well the AI is reading my resume. I've heard some struggle with tables (like if you add a sidebar) for example. I've also heard there are some that don't read PDFs, which is just stupid and some looks for a file with "resume" in the name even tho we don't really use that word in Sweden, instead we use "CV".

    It's a shitshow.

    Thank you, I'm seeing a psychiatrist next week, I hope to get some help from her on how to keep my head up.

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  • What is a soft phone?

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  • I guess you have tried already, but maybe a different launcher? A simpler one :)

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  • I've never been very good at networking, but I try!

    I live in Sweden and the Swedish job market is fked up right now. There is a weird mismatch, we have around 9% unemploymend, even university-gratuates struggle to get a job. If you're 40 or older, youre too old (I'm ~30).

    Recruters are trying to find their perfect match by posting jobs again and again even tho they have already found good candidates. But not good enought apparently.

    Also, the politicians have decided to pressure us unemployed as if we are lazy so we will get lower income from next month and people already struggle A LOT to survive. We also have weirder rules to follow, eg. we HAVE to apply 3 jobs that are more than 3h aways even if there ar plenty of jobs closer.

    We also have to apply to 3 jobs we don't have the skills for. At the same time, companies are requested to report appicants that they deem unserious. THAT sounds like a trap.

    The safety net is breaking and it's breaking FAST.

    (whelp, I could write a blog-post about this. Maybe I should)

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  • Thank you! Exiting to start a business, I hope you succeed and truly enjoy it!