The answer for me:

• Liberal use of block button.
• Going to random worlds with random people all the time.

It took about 2 years to find my group. There were a lot of good memories and fun times along the way, but I eventually found my people.

One day in a random lobby I happened across a group of four or five people. We were chatting and having a good time, and they invited me off to whatever worlds they were going to. They eventually got me into their group of gaming nights and weekly hangouts. Through that group, I met who is now my best friend. She then got me into her group and I have since met a lot of people that are very dear to me.

I have been a part of a lot of groups in the past, but I could never truly call any of them my close friends. Now I have a handful of people that I would do just about anything for.

It's not easy to meet people on VR chat, but, if you surround yourself with good people, you can eventually find your people.