Well, without any context it is hard to say. In very general terms, I have a little advice.
Find a job you don't hate. You're going be spending a lot of your time there, if it sucks your soul out you will never be happy. I think this is a super important one.
Don't acquire needless debt. It's so easy to fall into the buy now, pay later mentality. Especially when Klarna and Afterpay are shoved down your throat with every online purchase. It's a slippery slope.
Quality is much more important than trendy. Sure, there is stuff that is quality and trendy. But you don't need to buy a Le Creuset when a Lodge will do just as good.
Get a cheap hobby. Maybe there is a little up front capital to get started, like for tools or something. But if the rest of it is cheap, you'll be able to do it more often. One of mine is restoring antique fountain pens. I needed a pen press, a buffing wheel, jewelry pliers, sac shellac, some 100% talc. But broken pens and sacs are cheap, so it is something I can do anytime for a few bucks. The detail work is soothing. And consumes hours.
It gets increasingly difficult to make friends after you're out of school. So, hang on to your closest ones. Make time to keep seeing them, even if you don't feel like going out.
I don't know how young "young" is, but I think it's pretty normal to feel that way in your early 20's. It's a time of big changes. And don't compare yourself to social media. It's not real life.
Been on Mint for a bit over a year. Only slight annoyances. My tax guy couldn't open the password protected .zip files I made. My printer has two trays, can only seem to print from the photo one. And getting the drivers installed for my TP-Link wifi adapter was a little bit of a pain. Other than that, everything has been great. It looks good, runs good, Games good. No issues with my NVidia card.
I need NX. If we could get that working, and if IT let me have Linux on my work PC, I would be so happy. My CAD station runs considerably worse on Win11, and the drivers for my favorite spaceball don't work on it.
Yeah, parenthood is stressful. I have less personal time. A loooot less expendable income. But when I pick my 3 year old up from daycare, and she's so excited to see me, you'd think she hadn't seen me in days, my heart just melts. It's so interesting to hear her take on things. The stories she makes up with her toys. Hear her describe what's going on in her abstract scribbles.
She loves music. Michael Jackson, The Wallfowers, and Sam the Sham are surprise favorites at the moment. Aside from the soundtracks to Frozen and the Little Mermaid.
Seeing her get excited about things that we take for granted brings joy back into my life. Even something mundane like a Spirit plane coming in to land by the airport by us. She was so excited because it was yellow. Ford Fusions are "Shark Cars" and she always loves pointing them out. Putting stuff on the checkout conveyor at the grocery store. Turning on light switches. Riding Sandy ar Meijer.
Now, she's getting into board and card games and it's so cool to have family game nights. Primarily dominoes and Uno. I have a ton of weird vintage board games in the basement I cannot wait to bust out when she's older.
I could go on and on about why I love being a dad. The day she was born, from the moment I held her, I knew that I would fully be capable of killing someone. As long as I am alive and capable, I will do everything in my power to keep anyone from harming her. She is everything to me.
Antique. I'd say mission style furniture. My father in law used to do restorations. But it really isn't my scene at all. My ideal house would be all mid-century. But I also like more modern contemporary furniture.
My wife's parents have a ton of antique furniture. They've given us some stuff, it is out in the garage now. They see our furniture, it is more modern. My mother in law has been pouty, "oh, I guess we need to sell all this before we die! You aren't going to want any of this." Thank you, yes. That is exactly what I want. I know that was supposed to be a guilt trip, but that is exactly what we want. Lol
No. I keep pretty much everything to myself. I am convinced that no good can come of me expressing any of my emotions. I need to be a rock. I allow myself a few minutes of crying when a relative dies.
An under sink filter system has been one of my favorite small upgrades for my house. I always have a metal water bottle with me, and for longer times away I have a big metal half-gallon insulated jug.
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