• Amanda@aggregatet.org
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    3 months ago

    Does this happen to you often? My impression is people usually tell you after they’ve succeeded.

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      3 months ago

      In China people are pretty honest about it being the time of the month or trying for a baby. As a father myself, my friend and colleague just told me they were trying. I just never went through the experience of ‘trying’. My wife and I just conceived randomly and immediately we went ‘Yes let’s keep it!’ No regrets.