• Libb@jlai.lu
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    4 days ago

    Not sure to understand the question? How could you not know?

    If you’re thinking about finding the ‘perfect’ partner, forget about that. It’s a lie. It’s something fabricated to sell ads, page views and subscriptions to shitty services. Nobody (including you and me), nobody is perfect. So, no relationship can be perfect.

    My spouse and I have been together for 25+ years and counting. It was quite obvious very early on we’re fitting together nicely but that was far from being a perfect match and we had a few rough times and, all those years later, we can still have. But we’ve quickly realized how lucky we were to have found each other, and we valued that enough to get over any difficulty or hardship. And we still do.

    So, to me that’s a ‘right relationship’, just not ‘the’ right one as we could as easily have both been as happy with someone else if things had been different ;)

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    The wrong relationship one is a tricky thing to answer

    For me, it has always been when the happiness they bring during the good times isn’t worth the pain of the bad

    When it’s right, it’s impossible to pin down

    I have the most amazing fiancée in the world.

    I’ve been married for many years, I’ve had other serious relationships

    This woman is everything to me. Colours are brighter, food tastes better, flowers, sunrises, mountain views and all the other beautiful things are more wonderful because of her

    It’s like I was seeing the world with a dimmer before she came into my life

    That’s why I know she is right for me

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        She’s something special. She is spectacularly gorgeous, she turns heads everywhere we go, but she’s only beautiful to me because of what she carries within her. She is the kindest and most compassionate person I have known

        Her eyes are so bright that they put a summer’s day to shame, and in her eyes I can see her inner beauty shining through

        She has had many guys ask her to marry them.

        Rich, powerful, successful guys

        She couldn’t care less. She has the biggest heart, and she’s true to what she believes in

        I’m the luckiest bastard on Earth